A friend just related to me her tale of woe. Her younger sister was married to a guy from an apparently well placed family from Delhi but there were marital issues now. The usual aspects in an arranged marriage were all studied by formal and informal means known to all Indians prior to the marriage, the groom (profession, height, weight, qualifications, salary, company, horoscope, complexion, the way he smiled, features and such important traits), the family (community, religion, region of origin, relatives in various positions, age profile, number of brothers and sisters, father & mother dead or alive), culture (Indian Punjabi with a mix of Metro / liberal outlook), wealth (jewellery worn by the ladies, also known by deliberate references to gold and diamonds in conversations / discussions), residential property (the house they lived in plus gossip gathered or hinted at purposefully about other property), the number of cars, the servants serving tea etc. The marriage was reasona...
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