Eating out - at least dress up reasonably well

I just don’t get it. If you go out to eat at least dress reasonably well. In acceptable as per norms clothes. Recently I was at a certain i I would say nice place. It was around 1030 in the morning and some couples were dropping in for breakfast. One guy, a Professor with some years behind him at a reputed institution turned up in shorts - now shorts can be formal but the ones he wore were of the stringy clingy cotton type. The better version of the kacha as we know it. And a better version of slippers. It sort of takes the grace away. There were a couple of others but this was too much. Even one lady - her dress looked all crumpled as though she slept in it and turned up for breakfast. Footwear - again close to those worn regularly at the house. Come on I know it’s the time and age of being informal but do not stretch it. Even a dhabha would not like this.

Enjoy the food but dress up at least reasonably. And don't let the shorts get into the rear side cleavage !!

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