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WOMEN'S DAY - MARCH 2025 - SOME REFLECTIONS THROUGH A SPEECH

 

WOMEN’S DAY – SOME REFLECTIONS – 2025. Speech for Officers, Women entrepreneurs, Women Based FPOs / OFPOs / SHGs.   DINESH K KAPILA, Chief General Manager (Retd), NABARD

Background

As a man, this is a challenge today. I do not claim to understand fully the concept of empowerment as regards women, the perspective of women can be very different from what I may understand or perceive. However, based on my experience and work, I will try to share my thoughts and views today. I will however say I have mentored some rather small enterprises of women and guided them, women can certainly evolve and learn and succeed. Secondly, I am among my own colleagues, it’s a challenge to be relevant and insightful.

International Women’s Day is a special occasion to honor the achievements and contributions of women in every field. Women play vital roles as mothers, daughters, professionals and leaders, shaping a better world together their hard work and dedication. This year’s theme, “Accelerate Action,” reminds us to support gender equality and create more opportunities for women. Every woman deserves respect, education and equal rights to achieve her dreams. By appreciating and empowering women, we can build a society where they feel safe, valued and strong. Happy International Women’s Day! Let’s work together for a better future of equality and empowerment

Women are the foundation of families, communities and nations. They play vital roles as mothers, leaders, innovators and changemakers. This day highlights the struggle women have faced for equality and the progress they have made. Over the years, women have fought for their rights in education, workplaces and leadership positions. Today, they shine in fields like science, politics, businesses and sports. However, challenges like gender discrimination, unequal pay and violence against women still exist. Education is the key to change. When women are educated, they uplift families and societies. Equal opportunities must be given to all, ensuring that success is based on talent and hard work, not gender. The achievements of women deserve recognition, and their voices must be heard. By supporting and uplifting women, we create a better world for everyone. When women rise, the world rises. We have to empower women.

We have different India’s, the India of women in power, women entrepreneurs, women owning businesses, women as Directors, officers and many are role models. Mostly an urban story. What about small town India and rural India. And in cities too, some families are forward thinking, some are not. Think it over. It’s a struggle at times for ladies to make their voice heard loud and clear in a male dominated world, which is inclined to think the way males think.   

What do we mean by Women’s Day. It is a point I always bring out. Honestly. Tell me, when we look at women giving interviews to the audio visual media, we are judging their confidence too. That makes us realise their self confidence and assess the faith and passion they have in what they espouse. While I do not seek to uphold all that is sourced from the Western World as correct and worth emulating, but I draw the line at personifying confidence. What do you perceive when a woman or lady speaks from the typical western mindset. She stands up straight and looks at the camera directly or at the interviewer. The voice comes clear and so does the eye contact. I have spent time on this over the years requesting and advising women to look at me or at the camera or whoever it may be and to make eye contact while speaking. The idea is not to make the uncomfortable but rather that their looking down or elsewhere and then making a point just won’t do.   Even while walking I find many women looking down partially, why not look into the distance directly. The women have to evolve and develop the confidence in themselves to demonstrate their level of confidence.

 

Years ago, still in college, I was on a bus to Jalandhar city. From Chandigarh. The family nearby, was focused on feeding the younger male child first. My daughter was born in 1990, when I reached home from the hospital, an educated neighbour said, “better luck next time”. And when we distributed sweets, she was the first grandchild for my parents and in laws, many a house I went to was silent.  A lady came to me around 1992, we were checking income tax papers, she simply said, do not ask questions, only my husband knows !.

Have things improved, certainly, my first grand child is a girl, both sides were happy, but when a grand son was born recently, the congratulations were louder. Just very recently I had to scold a very accomplished self confident lady, the moment I asked her a question relating to a will and property, she said it was to be answered by her husband. Mind you, the property is hers !. 

Jagdish Kaur near Chamkaur Saheb, I remember 20 years on, for her entrepreneurship. Seema Thakur, I saw her evolve, in Kangra District, she was a SHG Member, then a group leader and later an animator. A motivator at her village and centre, but shy and underconfident outside, she was later seasoned and professional.

I have in Ropar years ago sat with Father Joseph, as we let ladies swing away to Punjabi Songs after sharing how inspite of social restrictions, they were attempting to push ahead, simple dreams, education, grace, respect and a say in the family on decisions. Including crucially on financial issues and a wider exposure to the immediate environment, including the local banks and maybe visits to small hotels.

There have been disappointments too. Such as entering a Government School, upto Class XII,  where the School Principal, a lady, was deferring to her husband, who sat in the office only. The Government does its part, but we have to evolve by understanding we need to change. I just received a call from a medium level political figure, he invited me to a function. Actually his wife is the Zila Parishad Chief, but as he put it, the Government may reserve the position for a lady but I only would run the show from behind the scenes. It sort of disturbed me, we really need to evolve, I mean hearing this after all these years again. It’s a slow slow path to moving up.   

One additional point, many ladies, teaching, working in Banks even, if I share news such as on opening a DMAT account, or a new Government avenue for investments, tell me  to share it with their husbands. Why should I do so, they ought to know this aspect too. They may not work on it, but atleast be aware and have the knowledge and awareness. You have to proceed on tours, sit late at times too, equality demands some stepping up by women too.      

An interesting sidelight, yesterday in my own sector and among similar well placed socio economic groups, just to update myself, I thought I would just seek and request views, specially ladies, any age but preferably say 35 years to 50 years. The issues

- How aware are you about investments and financial planning. And returns.

- Investments in not just Fixed Deposits but mutual funds, stocks etc. Deposits in NBFCs

- Any major financial decisions, be it investing in financial products or buying property, do you have an equal voice and say or its the male whose views matter. And who identifies the opportunity,

- Insurance products and combinations for life, also for health and General insurance

- awareness about pension products and national pension scheme

- what is your primary source of information, financial advisor or male member or own reading.

- do you visit bank branches and the like or mainly male members.

- are you in a position to guide maids etc on varied Govt products for insurance or the girl child.

And property rights. Do you support it.

If possible and willing, kindly message me directly. It’s purely voluntary. I am just assessing how much have we travelled in this journey. Of financial empowerment and awareness. Gentlemen can also message their views if any. Thank you

Well, some ladies said we divide our work with our husbands, this is outside our preferred area, a few conveyed accounts are never easy, some conveyed we do discuss but the actual operation and execution is with the husband. Only three ladies said they decide independently, they have a strong circle of friends – mainly ladies and they decide all investments. Incidentally, some conveyed in many houses, investments meant only purchase of land and gold. Now if this is the status even today, we have a concern.    This was one set of views received plus a few more on these lines, where ladies have learnt from each other. And met and discussed financial planning, or consulted Advisors but decided on their own. Many labelled it complex, plus that Govt Offices dealing with revenue matters were very opaque and gender unfriendly. Many felt uncomfortable, this many have stressed, a point of concern.  

The objective of all these examples, somewhere they will resonate within all of us, is to realise that we must be more aware, more knowledgeable and more confident. That is the way. Let us discuss this one by one. These are a must.

I agree that the situation is much improved but we are a nation and society at varying levels of development. Within every social and economic class or community the degree of empowerment varies and varies deeply. It’s a flux and this can be a very difficult process as we transition to another level. From varying levels and cultural contexts. We are all on a journey of discovering including of ourselves, particularly the women. They perhaps know what they seek but are held back by the backers of status quo and self styled norms. Social order, the threat of chaos, mixing up religion with empowerment are all thrown into the mix of seasoned arguments to oppose the evolution towards empowerment. This is a fact.


Just by the way we men don’t have it easy too. As ladies evolve and are at varied levels of empowerment and cultural contexts, we men have to pick up clues, specially in social settings, as to the cultural norms which are acceptable. It can be confusing but that is how any society would evolve. Seriously, men need new cultural norms and ideals because as women are empowered and evolve accordingly do, men need to understand the evolution and to learn on how to conduct themselves with the more empowered women. And do not let a couple of suicides by men detract from the overall context and scenario. The gender gap exists.

 

Entrepreneurship is also a personification of empowerment. I am leaving out the well to do class and a certain section across all social and economic groups. The upper crust has the confidence and in the other sections some element will acquire it.  You must explore any opportunity to set up a business, jointly, alone, as a group.

Women’s empowerment has five components: women’s sense of self-worth; their right to have and to determine choices; their right to have access to opportunities and resources; their right to have power to control their own lives, both within and outside the home; and their ability to influence the direction of social change to create a more just social and economic order, nationally and internationally.

In this context, education, training, awareness raising, building self-confidence, expansion of choices, increased access to and control over resources, and actions to transform the structures and institutions that reinforce and perpetuate gender discrimination and inequality are important tools for empowering women and girls to claim their rights. Develop the confidence.

Technology in bridging gaps, specially in rural areas, is important, the leaders at Mahila Mandals, Groups, NGOs etc should understand this, learn it and work on it. Digital literacy can be a game changer, enabling women to access information, markets and opportunities previously out of reach.   encouraging women to leverage digital tools can significantly enhance their economic and social standing.    

 

 Incidentally, who attends seminars on skill development and Agriculture in rural areas, it’s the older men. HP, TN, Kashmir, Punjab, Haryana and UP, Who does the work ok dairy – women. But are no where to be seen. At camps. Technical inputs are important. There is silence and not speaking up or inquiring even if they are present.

 

THE WHY -  Rural women are torchbearers for social, economic and environment transformation for the ‘New India’. In India, Agriculture employs about 80 percent of rural women. Empowering and mainstreaming rural women workforce in agriculture can bring a paradigm shift towards economic growth. It will enhance food and nutrition security and alleviate poverty and hunger. It’s a win win strategy for achieving the Sustainable Development Goals by 2030.

 

Be Aware Be Knowledgeable.

Read. Watch the news. Read the newspaper. If you have a smartphone, watch Youtube for knowledge. I have seen women Not a single woman - from amongst all present at a function from age groups of approximately 18 to 45, was reading a newspaper or magazine. Reading was strictly religious, if at all. - There was no awareness about products of banks, either of asset or liability classification.

-  Literacy was upto class VIII normally with a few matriculates, but literacy skills were lost due to lack of application.  - A felt need for subsidy or grants from the government was maximum.

- Entertainment vide TV was common but with a religious bias, quite regulated and minimal emphasis on current affairs etc. How many know about Common Service Centres  and village information centre /kiosks. And the  toll- free kisan call centre. Do not do to your daughter in law or daughter what your mother in law or own family imposed on you. This generational hand me down of adverse relationships with the daughter in law by the mother in law must stop or reduce. That is a reality I have to say. Visit the offices for inputs on Agriculture, try it. Have role models, study them and their work. Be visible. Be curious. Know how the Panchayat works, Banks work.

Religion and Society

We have the example of some quoting from their religious texts to justify that empowerment and self confidence are qualities already spoken for and hence so embedded. They forget it’s typical of the mindset we have in our nation that to say is to have executed it. Not so. Data points out the truth. As we are generally not able to execute projects in terms of timelines etc so is there a wide gap between the thoughts and ideals espoused in the religious texts which we quote and the process of actual empowerment. Else our nation would not have required laws on female foeticide.

Minor or rather mini revolutions are occurring across rural and semi urban India but so are the votaries of status quo. The opposition will take time to move to a broader level of acceptance of the rights of women. Even in urban India, as urbanisation is a recent phenomenon, the mindset of status quo has ventured in.

Agriculture

Mainly rural women are engaged in agricultural activities in three different ways depending on the socio-economic status of their family and regional factors. They work as:

Paid Labourers. Cultivator doing labour on their own land. Managers of certain aspects of agricultural production by way of labour supervision and the participation in post harvest operations. Except grazing, all other livestock management activities are predominantly performed by women.

Ideally,  overall Women and men must have equally participate as decisionmakers in rural institutions and in shaping laws, policies and programmes  but do we see them at Mandis. Women and men should have equal access to and control over decent employment and income, land and other productive resources  Women’s work burden is reduced by 20 percent through improved technologies, services and infrastructure.  .

By the way the work force participation rate is higher for rural women than women in urban areas.

Women friendly equipment and designs are a must. An Engineer heading a start up pointed this out, but without this demand or view from women. The say in decision making and financial matters is what eludes women even if active in agriculture. An engineer told me he perceived this, not the women, design equipment for women.   

Access and control over resources : How many women had land ownership and almost the same extent had household ownership. Their ownership was restricted mostly to ponds, fallow, pastures or rainfed lands and marginal land-holding.

Health and nutritional security

Look after your own health. Women should plant a nutrition garden in their homestead. To minimize iron deficiency (anaemia), additional food requirements during pregnancy and lactation, importance of breast-feeding, supplementary feeding for young children, preparation of nutritious weaning food at home, importance of kitchen-garden in homesteads. Raksha Dhand – bring variety and nutrition in diets and food. Learn the varied modes of dishes too. And teach your sons. Know nutrition. Know proteins and carbohydrates.  

Vocational skills:

Pick up Skill-oriented trainings in Crèche management, preparation of educational play materials, soft-toy making, food preservation, preparation of utility items, embroidery and infant garment making. Utilization of non-degradable farm-waste: Degradable farm-waste, can be used for preparing files, purse, bags, asanas, durries, tablemats, footmat, runners and photo-frames.

Livelihood security:

Efforts are required to strengthen SHGs by conducting group trainings in a systematic manner, providing continuous facilitation support by exchange of information and ideas with successful group members, micro financing strategies by enhanced, mutual trust between banks and SHG groups, promoting saving habit and proper use of loan by SHG members. Members need to be  equipped with entrepreneurial skills such as vermi-composting, dairying, flour milling, preparation of handicrafts, embroidered products through demonstrations, video films, mahila mandals (success stories of women entrepreneurs). Micro-enterprise units were established by many SHGs in which their skills were developed.

Improving representation in communities and politics

Women representation in communities is comparatively much lower than men. Traditional norms often hinder women from participating in policies that concern them. As a result, their needs are barely taken into account. Therefore, it is crucial to form and support rural women empowerment movements and form policies that require a minimum representation of women in every aspect that concerns them such as labour unions, politics, education and local administrations. You must voice your opinions. And find representation. Do not let it be pati sarpanch.  The women speak to me when the men are away or else go silent.  Change this, get political in thought.  

Education & Skill development

Through various government schemes and programs, the enrollment of female children in schools improved over the years. Unfortunately, the dropout rates of women are staggering. Wedding in the family, the girl students are absent more. Attend PTA Meetings. Try to push the teachers. Educate yourself, know the opportunities. Encourage any possibility for vocational education and skills development training to match the market needs and obtain employment.

Financial wisdom

Bias and discrimination, limited credit history, lack of collateral a reality. Know the support available. Read and watch to learn. We have to reduce the financial gap. Collateral free loans – Mudra Yojna, Interest subvention or concession, simplified eligibility, NBFC MFIs know and understand them, PMEGP, Terms and conditions, its not just you, the nation gains, society gains, the family gains. No knowledge of insurance as a method to minimize risks was known or found amongst them. Small credit needs for consumption expenditure was found to be the main demand. Do the accounts for your home, not the men. And voice your assessment.  

Morni Hills – Tomato farming, the lady said – do not consider me less empowered if I do not have my own shop or small business, I and my husband, plus my devar and his wife harvested 700 crates plus of tomatoes, each crate has 25 kgs of tomato, rates Rs 1500/- a crate to Rs 150/- to Rs 200/- a crate, plus I lead the mahila mandal, ask me anything on SHGs and our functioning and the costs at our farms. This is what I want to see and hear.

In SHGs, debate deeply, know the bank, visit it regularly, know the forms, rate of interest, and do not let a couple of members to dominate the group. Exchange information and tie up with other groups. Do not let men guide you if it comes as an instruction, I just saw this. As I discussed, the men started to say they do not understand interest, the women went quiet, let them be.  And I want all women to be empowered and aware, not just the leaders, spread the empowerment.


Progress will be mainly incremental and slow, we have to stay focused on the overall context and not just the social impact but the beneficial impact on the economy too. The women as a group have to understand this significance, inculcate these values in both sons and daughters and make this impact at workplaces too. Society evolves, if we understand the need and context.   

 

Incidentally, even if migrant labour has been present for 10-12 years at a single location, access to any banking service is uniformly denied normally, to men or women as the case maybe.

 

Do not say How ! If you can watch Reels and Gossip, you can do this too. My view, my observation, Rural women, once aware and trained in financial literacy - specially rates of interest and fixing installments -  are found to generally demonstrate a higher degree of financial literacy and awareness as also discipline than the men by NGOs. Women were also found to be serious in learning the concept and adopting it. The deep felt need of these women to access credit and opportunities can only be felt and understood by interaction In India, reforms are underlined for holistic development of women, enabling socio-economic and health security. Since Independence, several government flagship schemes and programmes have been initiated to improve the stature of rural women in society by creating livelihood opportunities and engagements in paid employment. Various schemes, such as the Prime Minister’s Employment Generation Program (PMEGP), National Livelihoods Mission, Deen Dayal Upadhayay Grameen Kaushalya Yojana (DDU-GKY), Pradhan Mantri Kaushal Vikas Yojana (PMKVY), Beti Bachao Beti Padhao, Pradhan Mantri Matru Vandana Yojana I (PMMVY), etc. have  made a significant contribution to creating gender parity and socio-economic empowerment of women in India. Now, rural women have availing access to education, productive resources, capacity building, skill development, healthcare facilities and diversified livelihood opportunities through government beneficiary schemes. CRUCIALLY THE GAP REMAINS.

To sum up, women play a pivotal role in driving economic growth and bringing a positive social change. You just have to be resilient,  have a focused determination, be innovative and flexible in the mind.   When women are fully empowered, its not just the family which gains but the nation, it drives prosperity. Jai Hind.

The Union Budget 2025-26, presented by Finance Minister Nirmala Sitharaman, reflects a strong commitment to women's welfare, economic empowerment, and social upliftment. With a record allocation of ₹4.49 lakh crore towards gender-specific initiatives, marking a 37% increase from last year, this budget sets the stage for greater financial inclusion, entrepreneurship, and employment for women​.

The National Rural Livelihood Mission (NRLM) has been upgraded in the Gender Budget, government's focus on Self-Help Groups (SHGs) as drivers of economic change. This aligns with the Viksit Bharat Vision, which aims for 70% women participation in economic activities​.

Additionally, India Post is being repositioned as a logistics hub to support women entrepreneurs and SHGs, ensuring better access to financial and logistical support for rural women​.

new scheme for first-time women entrepreneurs, along with SC/ST entrepreneurs, will provide term loans up to ₹2 crore in the next five years. This initiative, modeled on the successful Stand-Up India scheme, includes online capacity-building programs to enhance managerial skills​. In a significant move, the government will introduce customized credit cards with a ₹5 lakh limit for micro-enterprises, enabling easier access to credit for women-led businesses​.

Healthcare and Nutrition: Investing in Women’s Well-being Saksham Anganwadi and Poshan 2.0: Nutritional support for over 1 crore pregnant women and lactating mothers will be enhanced​. Day Care Cancer Centres: 200 centers will be set up in district hospitals to improve women’s access to cancer treatment​. PM Jan Arogya Yojana Expansion: Gig workers, including women on digital platforms, will now be covered under this health insurance scheme​.

Rural Prosperity and Skill Developmentcomprehensive multi-sectoral program will focus on empowering rural women and young farmers, ensuring skilling and employment in agricultural and allied sectors​. Moreover, National Centres of Excellence for Skilling will be set up to equip women with industry-relevant skills, ensuring better job opportunities​.

Infrastructure and Safety Measures  Urban Livelihoods Program: A new scheme for socio-economic upliftment of urban women workers will be launched​.

  • Women-Friendly Transport: The Ministry of Railways and Ministry of Ports, Shipping & Waterways have been included in the Gender Budget Statement for the first time, ensuring safer and more accessible transportation for women​.
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·        Good Morning, I was so pleased and heartened to read the brilliant topic of your speech. - How aware are you about investments and financial planning. And returns.

·        The word investment was almost taboo in the contemporary context. In my household - investments meant property ( agricultural land or the home ) and gold ( that too jewellery). The traditional understanding of keeping money safe and locked away in FD’s in a bank is very typical of conservative attitudes of the services. What parents know best of the world. They pass on. I have had to learn the hard way, and in my middle age the value of recurrent income through a diversified portfolio that consists of both short and long term investments. - ⁠Any major financial decisions, be it investing in financial products or buying property, do you have an equal voice and say or it’s the male whose views matter. And who identifies the opportunity. -All major decisions are taken by me. As mine is now a single parent household.- ⁠Insurance products and combinations for life, also for health and General insurance. - I have a health and life insurance amounting to a figure that would support my daughter for the next 5 to 8 years, should I pass unexpectedly.- ⁠awareness about pension products and national pension scheme. I do not fall in that category, but I am aware through my father. - ⁠what is your primary source of information, financial advisor or male member or own reading. My own girlfriends who are entrepreneurs, building their businesses and financial advisors they have employed to grow their money- help educate me & invest for me. - ⁠do you visit bank branches and the like or mainly male members.  My parents have always encouraged to be proactive for all banking. I have been going since grade 10. I manage my sisters accounts for them as well.- ⁠are you in a position to guide maids etc on varied Govt products for insurance or the girl child. Not completely. I would be very very keen to know. I find their educational needs at the moment and would want to build a corpus for them as well.

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